Online (gaming) relationships [problems]?
Well… I should give a little information about myself before you all start to judge me and my problems..
I was pretty much a black sheep in my family. Whenever I did well, I was never praised, and whenever I didn’t do well, I was yelled at.
Because of this, I’ve become a very sensitive guy. And I don’t want to repeat the mistakes they did to me..
Anyways.. I’ve started dating around 13/14 years old, because I felt like I have no purpose in life (or as you can say, an empty heart) and I wanted to find my significant other. I’ve dated in real life a couple of times, and have been rejected many times when I was 13-14 years old, and then 16. I was pretty sick of that so I resulted to online dating when I was 14.
When I was around 14-15 (my freshman year in high school), where I started online dating (accidentally in a game), I found someone who had alot in common with me.
After a year passed by with a couple more failures in rejection and dating. I gave up and talked to her once again during my senior year in high school (age 17).
She told me about her past and I told her about mine. I felt by then that we truly had alot in common..
However… I have a problem with trust, as I’ve been cheated a couple of times.
——– Particularly there was one guy that is friends with her in real life and joined the game with her.
She was confused and very angry at the same time, but still chose me over him
(i do not know whether this is actually true.. because even though she deleted him from facebook, and from that game, he was still on her friends list on msn.. yeah.. I snooped around..)
When I asked her, she told me she blocked him.. but I don’t know if its true..
I understand as much about myself that my childhood trauma made me become very sensitive to the world. But I’m really confused at what I should do, because I tend to overworry, stress, and such. ):
Also.. is it illegal to still date her once I turn 18 and she turns 15..?
Thanks for taking your time to read this. I really want you to tell me what you think I should take.. for the next step.=)
And I have no ill intentions to her. I promised to visit her,
WoW that is a problem. Lol. But online dating is very tricky. You never know if you can trust them or not. The fact is unless you meet her somehow, your relationship can never work. And i’m pretty sure you already know that. As for the age, it depends. I honestly don’t know since she lives in Canada and i don’t know where you live lol. But i know in my state, the law is two years apart. But i think as long as it’s not a sexual relationship then it’s okay. I’m not really sure though.
What is the etiquette for online dating?
I have been talking to someone from an online dating website for about 3 weeks or so, we have messaged each other at least 2-3 times a day sometimes more. I think we are communicating well and everything so what is the next step? Do i give her my number and kind of gradually get a little more personable maybe start with texting then a phone call here and there then eventually meet? I have never done this before so i could really use some advice, thanks.
If I were you, I’d first give this person your number and txt them a little more than 2-3 times a day. Then I’d call him/her and say, “Hey I really like you, next time your in my area we should meet up!” Or something like that. But based on your personality, don’t go out of your way and change yourself just to get this person to like you.
How does a guy move past the emailing phase when talking to girls online?
I’ve recently started using an online dating site which, so far hasn’t been too bad. There are a couple of seemingly nice girls that I’ve been exchanging emails with but it seems like the back and fourth messaging is becoming more circular than linear. What is the “next step” after emailing for a little bit? And how does one facilitate this transition from meassaging to ,presumably, an actual phone conversation or date, or whatever’s next?
Get the number… You can’t schedule a date over email. Plus what if she sounds like a man, you need to know that before you meet up.
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