Can I Check My Own Dilation Your Questions

FOR THE LOVERS OF SPECIAL THEORY OF RELATIVITY…can anyone solve this time dilation paradox?

ok.. we all are generally aware of time dilation which is a consequence of lorentz transformation.. now here is a INTERESTING question for you. lets see how much is specIAL theory of relativity correct..
consider a hypothetical experiment …. it consist of two persons …. you and me… suppose you are sitting in a spaceship which is moving at a certain relativistic velocity,,near to c .. but i am on earth …. we both have same type of clocks with us,,and we have to check the correctness of time dilation and its reciprocal effect.
we are asked to CHECK THE TIME OF EACH OTHER’S CLOCK AS SOON AS OUR OWN CLOCK READS 10 HOURS INDIVIDUALLY….. i.e. when my clock reads 10 hour , i will look at your clock from earth by using a telescope.similarly you will also do the same as soon as your clock reads 10 hours…. NOW.LET US SUPPOSE THAT TIME DILATION IS TRUE ANS IS RECIPROCAL TOO.
lets us suppose that my clock reads 10 hours at the instant -1 ,, when i will look at your clock from telescope ,, your clock will read time less then 10 hours(let’s say that your clock reads 8 hours),because of time dilation.
so at this instant-1 my clock reads 10 hours and your lock reads 8 hours. FINE!!!
now lets jump over to your frame of reference(spaceship) .. till this instant -1 your clock reads 8 hours. after 2 hours in your frame of reference , your clock will also read 10 hours.at this instant-2 you will look at my clock through a telescope….
THE PROBLEM AROUSES NOW…
if time dilation is true…. then it has to be reciprocative too..
this implies that after 10 hours you should see that my clock reads 8 hours….(for time dilation to be true)
BUT….. AS YOU KNOW THAT INSTANT 2 HAS OCCURED AFTER INSTANT -1….. AND AT INSTANT 1 MY CLOCK READ 10 HOURS…. HENCE AT INSTANT 2 MY CLOCK WILL DEFINETELY READ A TIME GREATER THEN 10 HOURS ANDDDDDD NOT THE 8 HOURS……

RESULT—- AN EVENT CAN BE VISUALISED ONLY WHEN IT HAS ACCTUALY OCCURED ,,,, IT CANNOT BE VISUALISED BEFORE THAT OR AFTER THAT……
HENCE TIME DILATION IS NOT A RECIPROCATIVE EFFECT AND IF IT IS NOT RECIPROCATIVE THEN IT IS NOT TRUE………………… BECAUSE IT HAVE TO BE RECIPROCATIVE IF IT EXIST…

Is There Anything I Can Do To Encourage Baby To Drop?

I am 41 weeks pregnant with my first baby and I am looking at having to have an induction next week if she doesn’t come on her own. I want to avoid induction but yesterday my doctor checked me and my cervix showed no progress. No dilation, nothing. The baby hasn’t even dropped into my pelvis yet!! Is there anything I can do to encourage the baby to drop and get things going? (Besides sex, my hubby is scared of hurting the baby and refuses to have sex with me) Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Manual Dilation…before 37 weeks?

I am 36 weeks pregnant and 2 days today I went to my doctor’s appointment and she checked to see if I had started to dilate and she said ” no not yet almost but…well here I think I can get you to a one” ans she must have cause I was hurting a lot and after-wards I bled a little and have been spotting all day after that (she said this was normal) I was just wondering if that was normal. I taught you were supposed to dilate on your own until your due date (mine is not till 3/ 29)